Getting engaged is one of life’s most exciting milestones. It’s a time filled with joy, love, and dreams about your future together. But it can also be overwhelming as questions about planning your wedding start flooding in.
Here are six secrets to help you savour your engagement while setting the stage for a stress-free wedding journey.
1. Take Time to Celebrate
The first step after getting engaged is to simply enjoy the moment. There’s no rush to dive into planning right away. Take a few weeks—or even months—to bask in your engagement bubble. This allows you to celebrate with loved ones, flaunt your ring, and soak in the joy of this life-changing event.
What’s the First Thing to Do After Getting Engaged?
Announce your engagement personally to your closest friends and family before posting it on social media. This makes the moment more special and meaningful.
2. Decide When to Start Planning
So, how long after getting engaged should you start planning a wedding? The answer depends on you and your partner. Some couples dive into planning right away, while others take a year or more to enjoy being engaged.
When you're ready, start with the essentials, like choosing a date and venue.
How Long Does It Take to Plan a Wedding?
On average, planning takes 12 to 18 months, but it can be shorter or longer depending on your preferences. The key is to pace yourself and enjoy the process.
3. Discover Your Wedding Style
Your wedding style sets the tone for your entire day. Start by dreaming big with your partner. Think about your favuorite colours, seasons, and places, and consider what vibe you want—romantic, rustic, modern, or vintage.
Does My Wedding Need a Theme?
While not every wedding needs a formal theme, having a cohesive style or aesthetic helps bring your vision to life. This can be as simple as choosing a colour palette or as detailed as a specific era or concept.
How Do You Determine Your Wedding Style?
Explore inspiration on Pinterest, in magazines, or through a wedding stylist who can help refine your ideas and align them with your venue and budget.
4. Build the Foundation for Your Wedding
To avoid stress, prioritise the foundational elements early. Set a budget that reflects your priorities, choose a venue that aligns with your vision, and start building your guest list.
When Should I Ask My Bridesmaids?
There’s no rush! Take time to consider who will support you emotionally and practically during this journey. A good rule of thumb is to wait until you’ve set a date and venue so you can confidently discuss their roles.
When Should I Start Making Wedding Decor?
DIY decor is fun, but start only after you’ve determined your theme and finalized your venue. This ensures your decor aligns perfectly with the space.
5. Leverage the Expertise of a Wedding Stylist
A wedding stylist transforms your vision into a cohesive reality. Unlike a wedding planner, who focuses on logistics, a stylist specialises in creating stunning decor, table settings, and ambiance that reflect your love story.
What Does a Wedding Stylist Do?
A stylist curates and arranges elements like centerpieces, lighting, signage, and backdrops to create a magical atmosphere. They ensure your decor is not only beautiful but also seamlessly integrated with your venue. They will make sure your wedding is not a cookie-cutter style regardless of your venue holding multiple wedding events, it will be unique and bespoke, and about YOU!
Do I Need a Wedding Stylist?
If you want a stress-free experience and a wedding that looks as beautiful as it feels, a stylist is invaluable. They bring expertise, creativity, and peace of mind, ensuring your day is as unique as your love story.
6. Plan with Joy, Not Pressure
Your engagement and wedding planning journey should be exciting, not stressful. By pacing yourself, prioritising what matters most, and seeking expert guidance, you can enjoy the process while creating the wedding of your dreams.
Ready to Bring Your Vision to Life?
Transform your wedding dreams into reality with a Discovery Decor Consult at Elbee Events’ design studio. Let us refine your style and create a bespoke decor plan tailored to you.
Enjoy every moment of your engagement—stress-free and magical!